Music is comforting in times of strife
Published 1:47 am Wednesday, February 1, 2017
Music was a part of my world from the time I was young. There were records on the stereo lots of nights as my parents listened to their favorites. We heard everything from big band tunes to folk songs.
When I got older, I had a transistor radio clued to my ear most of the time. For the younger readers, listening to transistor radios was my generation’s version of the iPod or streaming music to wireless headphones. Might seem primitive today, but they were cool way back when.
I was lucky to come of age at a time when music became a way to say something about things going on in the world. Lyrics were about more than boy meets girl, boy loses girl, boy and girl reunite and dance on the beach.
There were songs about peace and love and unity. Social issues were suddenly song topics. That music spoke to me in a way that touched something deep within.
My husband and I have a music-filled house, too. In fact, there is a picture hanging above the desk where I write that reads, “Music is what feelings sound like.” That’s what music does for me, gives sound to feelings.
So, it’s no surprise that when life seems chaotic or confusing, I turn to music for comfort and hope. This past weekend I turned off the news and found myself listening to the Styx song, “Show Me the Way.” It became, for me, a meditation. Here are some of the lyrics.
“Every night I say a prayer in the hope that there’s a heaven
But every day I’m more confused as the saints turn into sinners
All the heroes and legends I knew as a child have fallen to idols of clay
And I feel this empty place inside, so afraid that I’ve lost my faith
Show me the way, show me the way…
…And as I slowly drift to sleep, for a moment dreams are sacred
I close my eyes and know there’s peace in a world so filled with hatred
Then I wake up each morning and turn on the news to find we’ve so far to go
And I keep on hoping for a sign, so afraid I just won’t know…
…Show me the way, show me the way
Give me the strength and the courage
To believe that I’ll get there someday
And please show me the way…”
I fell asleep with those words on my lips, “show me the way.”
It feels a little like we’ve lost our way in this country. We’ve divided into our camps of right and wrong. No one wants to move from his or her side to the middle where we might meet on common ground. It does seem like “a world so filled with hatred…”
Then I woke up to a sunny morning and heard echoing in my head another song that felt like an answered prayer. Consider these lyrics from “The Flame,” a song on a Beth Nielsen Chapman album.
I’ll end with these words because this music expresses what my feelings sound like and I think this message is what our world needs to hear and take to heart right now.
O come ye now unto the flame
Keep it through the night
Nourish it and share its warmth
And spend its precious light
The torch is passed among us all
To help us understand
A covenant of brotherhood
That joins our open hand
We are standing at the edge
Faced with just one choice
Teach each other to be kind
And let our hearts rejoice
As different as we seem to be
We are still the same
Divided by our separate walls
But joined before the flame
O come ye now unto the flame
Keep it through the night
Shelter and embrace it’s warmth
And spend it’s precious light
The darkness makes us all afraid
But we are not alone
The beacon of our common love
Will guide our journey home